Father Absence Was the Single Largest Social Issue Of Our Time
In a recent report, UNICEF declared that ‘Father Absence was the single largest social issue of our time’
For over 27 years I have been researching the effects that absent fathers, emotionally unavailable men and abusive men have had on their children and how these affects manifest throughout adult life.
Since the end of the Second World War the interest by governments and organization increased dramatically in this area and despite little if any action, the thousands of studies undertaken provides a sobering backdrop to this social issue of epidemic proportions.
In 2012 I launched TheFatherCode.com as a resource for anyone dealing with the issues of an Absent Father. Through the free report, the blog posts and articles you will find in this site, I share the decades of research and knowledge I have gained in this area along with recent breakthroughs in our understanding of brain science which allow quick and easy remedy to the limits and pain many people endure.
As a child raised in a single parent household myself, it is my intention to provide knowledge and understanding, not judgment or prejudice. I have known the pain, the frustration and the anger. I have been where you are now and I assure you that the way out is closer and easier that you might think.
‘we are hard wired to associate self esteem and self worth through our relationship with our father’
In many ways we are hard wired to associate self esteem and self worth through our relationship with our father. Whether through death, separation, illness, addiction, mental illness, abuse or any number of other reasons, when our relationship to our father and or the role modelling is not positive or nonexistent we adopt a relationship to power, authority, success and wealth that is often very limited if not totally destructive.
The perspectives, knowledge and methods available through the research have allowed thousands of men and women, who previously struggled with the weight, guilt and burden of underachievement and sabotage to easily and rapidly enjoy new levels of happiness, vitality, health, wealth and success.
It is my sincere hope that the information I offer you here allows you to see the depth of the issue, why we are affected, how the affects manifest in our lives and most importantly how you can finally enjoy freedom from the effects of an Absent Father.
This site is about community, it is about breaking the cycle, it is about taking responsibility for our own lives and the relationships we create. Just as darkness cannot exist in the presence of light, blame cannot exist in the presence of responsibility.
As a community I also need your help!
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So leave a comment of what you find helpful, what doesn’t work for you and any suggestion you may have on how to improve the site. Believe me your comments will help others and more than you realize they will help you!
One Million Men
My goal is to build a community of real men, men of integrity, men who are positive role models to those around them, not only their immediate families but to everyone they are in contact with. Men who by their actions, by simply being who they are act as beacons to the millions caught in the cycle of pain and frustration that is the Absent Father.
Download the free Report, tell your friends and break the cycle.